Hi, My Name is Shelli and I Am A Product Junkie.


Yes, I admit it.  I have a problem. I have accumulated a lot of products over the years, especially the last year since discovering CurlyNikki.com. This exercise in photo documenting and itemizing everything in my shower, under two sinks, on top of one sink, in the freezer, fridge and kitchen cabinets really brought that home.  But, I KNOW that I’m not the only one.  So, I’m thinking “What’s in Your Cabinets?” might become a regular feature where everyone can showcase their habit and give us the rundown of their acquisitions;-). What do you guys think? Look, I’ll even go first with …

Part I of Shelli’s PJ Stash:

1.  HE Color Me Happy shampoo (this is old, like 2008 old). It’s what I used when I had a few tracks in the back of my hair for length (this was after cutting my hair from BSL+ to ear length and growing it back to about CBL). It was recommended for the human hair I purchased in NY.  There’s barely anything left in it.

2.  Neutrogena T-Gel shampoo. This is even older than the HE shampoo. Like, really, really old.  Haven’t used it in half a decade, at least. But still won’t throw it out.  Shoot, might use it as a clarifier.

3.  Curls Creamy Curl shampoo. This was about $8 (I think) at Harmon’s.  This is the version they sell in Target, not the salon version. I’m not a fan. It causes my hair to tangle and seems drying. Tried it again this past Saturday with the same results.

4.  Ion Curl Enhancing shampoo.  This was about $5 or $6 from Sally’s.  It contains SLS, so I dilute it with water in that bottle behind 8 when I want to remove excess oils/butters/styling products. Although this has SLS, it does not strip my hair.  It lathers IMMENSELY, but the lather is moisturizing somehow.  My hair does not tangle with this.

5.  DevaCurl No Poo shampoo.  I think this size bottle is $18. I prefer the DevaCareNo Poo (HG) for color-treated hair, but Ulta was out of it.  I’ve tried a lot of shampoos now and Deva is still my favorite and the best on my hair, so it’s one of my holy grail (HG) products.

6.  SheaMoisture Raw Shea Butter Moisture Retention shampoo. Got this at the Walgreen’s BOGO sale. Believe all SM products are around $9-$10. Haven’t tried this one yet.

7. Dr. Miracles Temple and Nape Balm. Think this was $7 or so. Got it at Sally’s, I think. Don’t really remember. Got it a few years ago (maybe 3). Can you tell? I’ve used it quite a bit in the last year.  Don’t know that I’ve noticed any results with it. Got it for my fine-haired nape!

8.  Curls Dream Curls Clarifying shampoo. This is the salon version that I ordered from CurlMart using a GC I won from CN.com. It’s not cheap and the bottle was little. Again, not really impressed, especially given the cost.

9.  DevaCare One Conditioner (HG). Been using this for at least 6-7 years. It’s slippery and moisturizing and I’ve used it as a daily, deep and leave-in conditioner. It hydrates my hair and makes detangling easy for me. This is, like, the 32 oz. bottle. I think it’s about $28. However, I always buy Deva at Ulta when I have either a 20% off or $3.50 off coupon.

10. Herbal Essences Hello Hydration conditioner (staple). This is the big bottle. Think it’s about $5-$6 at Walmart/Harmon’s/Target (anywhere;). I use this to co-wash sometimes and it is a necessity for my henna rinsing. Time to restock as this is my last bottle and the plan is to henna this weekend while the SO is away.

11.  Herbal Essences Long Term Relationship conditioner. This size is about $3. This is a more recent acquisition and I’ve yet to try it. Little concerned about the dimethicone, but not overly.

12.  Aussie Moist conditioner. Again, about $3-$4. I mix this with distilled water to do a conditioning rinse over my DC before rinsing all of the conditioner out of my hair (this is a Ouidad technique I picked up from my sister and think it really makes a difference in the feel of my hair. For me, the key was the Ouidad conditioning technique, not the product – see 14).

13.  Herbal Essences Hydralicious conditioner. I picked this up last year after Nikki was raving about it as a leave-in for her TnC. That’s when I was in my full on JUNKIE mode, picking up something (or sometwo, somethree) every week!! I used it once, I think. Decided to leave it alone because of the cones.

14. Ouidad Deep Treatment. This joker normally costs $50, but I got 20% or 25% off on a sale a couple of years ago. Yup, spent about $40 on a DC.  I was NOT impressed with it in the slightest. Definitely overpriced as it relates to my hair. I’ll use it eventually by adding honey and oils to it. Carol’s Daughter Tui Hair Smoothie is less than half the price and worked far, FAR better for me. Again though, the instructions on how to use the treatment have become my standard DC technique.  Definitely noticed a difference in my DC results when I started following the “15 minute cool down and applying a conditioning rinse before rinsing DC” steps with CD Tui Hair Smoothie.

15. My essential oil mix (staple) (rosemary, cedarwood, thyme and lavendar EO in jojoba and grapeseed oil) in a repurposed eye dropper bottle=). Can’t give you a price for this because I don’t remember the price of each item in the mixture. The carrier oils aren’t that much, but the EOs can get pricey and hard to find. I ordered a couple online and found the thyme at a natural food store in my area.

16. Oyin Honey Hemp conditioner. I think this was about $16, but don’t remember. Oyin’s creator/owner is my SOs cousin!!  Both Jamyla and her husband PIerre are Black nerds too!!  It’s awesome. Oh yeah, the conditioner. It was decent.  A lot of people LOVE it. But, again, it was just okay on my hair and did not replace my DevaCare One. One reason for that is because Deva is easily accessible to me via a brick and mortar store.

17. Darcy’s Botanicals Pumpkin Seed Curl Moisturizing Conditioner. This is $12 for 8 oz.  I have two. This smells AMAZING (and I don’t consider myself a fan of pumpkin/pumpkin pie). It’s also very thick and moisturizing. I only use it as a DC as I find it economical for that.  It works very well for me, with no additions or heating. I’ve read reviews complaining about the pump, but it doesn’t present a problem for me.  Maybe that is because I’m not trying to use it to co-wash.

18. Tigi Bed Head Moisture Maniac conditioner. Picked this up at Target on sale after reading a lot of rave reviews about it on CN.com. This is the big 32 oz. (or so) size bottle and, I think, it was about $16 on sale. It was okay. Again, didn’t knock DevaCare One out of it’s HG status/position.

19. JessiCurl Weekly Deep Treatment x2 (now x3). This used to be $12, but went up to $16.95 last fall!!! Let’s just say that I was not pleased. I started getting this instead of CD’s Tui Hair Smoothie as it was significantly cheaper (CD’s THS is $20 for 8 oz.). I really love using this as a DC with a little added honey, JBCO and olive oil and coconut oil slightly heated. I had that CurlMart GC, so I bought a couple, even though the price had increased. Then I got a freebie in the GOC giveaway=). So, I’m stocked up on DCs for a while (especially given that there is a MyHoneyChild Olive You DC in my other cabinet, which I haven’t revealed to ya’ll as of yet;).

20. Carol’s Daughter Kizzi “Stay Put” Hair Pomade for $9.50. Picked this up from Sephora last year based on a friend’s recommendation. It did not make my hair/edges “stay put.” But, it’s good for sheen and sealing, I think.

21. Shea Moisture Shea Butter Deep Treatment Masque. Got this in the Walgreens BOGO sale too. It’s $9.99 regularly. I was pleasantly surprised by this DC, as I mentioned in a prior post. I didn’t expect it to work well for my hair as my hair doesn’t seem to be a fan of Shea Butter. However, I used it alone (no added oils or honey) and it appears to really moisturize my hair. It doesn’t go on smoothly like some of my other DCs. It has a thicker/coarser consistency. But, once rinsed, my hair is shiny and moisturized. 6/1 UPDATE: Used this as my DC after henna this past weekend. This is NOT good for a post-henna DC as it does not provide any slip and hair needs lots of slip to help with detangling after a henna tx.

22. Wonder Curl Get Slick Hair Smoothie tester. Price: Free;)!!! Well, the tester was free; the smoothie is $7 for 4 oz. on WonderCurl.com. Used this as a leave-in before using WonderCurl’s Butter Than Love. I was testing the product for her but had been using DevaCare One or the Kimmaytube recipe as my leave-ins. Wonder wanted me to try her BTL with her leave-in. It worked well. Got a good set out of it, which I’m pretty sure I posted on this blog somewhere in the past.

23. Vatika oil x3. I think this is about $3.99 (too lazy to go look at the bottle). As you see, I must like this as I have 3 bottles of it! I actually haven’t used it recently as I’ve been using my JBCO to seal and item 34 for pre-poos as of late.

24. Kinky Curly Knot Today Leave-In conditioner (staple). $12 for 12 oz. I use this for the Kimmaytube leave-in and it works great. I tried DevaCare One in the recipe a couple of times, but the KCKT worked better.

25. Giovanni Direct Leave-In conditioner. Think this was $8-$9 at Ulta. Read rave reviews about using this in the Kimmaytube recipe instead of KCKT. Cheaper option. I’ve only used it in the recipe once so far, but found it comparable to KCKT. So, it’s definitely an option.

26. Giovanni Leave-In Hair Treatment spray. This was an impulse buy at Ulta when I was getting the GD Leave-In conditioner. I think it was around the same price ($8-$9). I’ve used this a couple of times to “refresh” hair. Not enough to really judge, but didn’t see that it did anything more than Infusium 23 or the Sally’s GVP equivalent for Infusium. So, don’t see myself purchasing this one again.

27. Oyin Burnt Sugar Pomade. I think this was $12, but don’t remember. You can find the price on CurlMart. This smells delicious. But, it has a grainy texture that I worry might shred my fine hairs when I apply it. I don’t use it that often, but it smells wonderful (note, I love sweet smells=)! It has castor oil, which my hair loves. But, I just use Jamaican black castor oil (JBCO) straight out of the bottle for sealing.

28. Carol’s Daughter Healthy Hair Butter (HG). I think this is $18. This is one of my HG products. I haven’t been using it a lot lately because I’ve been experimenting with all these other products! But, it’s a product to which I always return and I attribute a portion of my hair growth and retention to the use of this product, mixed with gel, for WnGs. It’s moisturizing without being greasy or heavy.

29. Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl Enhancing Smoothie. Again, purchased during the Walgreens BOGO sale and it’s about $10. This product didn’t work well for me solo. However, mixed with something that provides hold (#32 or #36), it works well. It’ll work in a pinch, but will not be replacing my CD’s HHB.

30. Shea Moisture Hold and Shine Moisture Mist, $10. I’ve been using this a lot. It’s moisturizing, but think it’s a little too oily for my hair to use regularly. It’s good when my hair starts looking/feeling dry and needs a refresh. However, that doesn’t seem to occur too often anymore as I only go a week between wash, DC, moisturize and seal sessions. So again, not likely to be a repurchase.

31. 100% Raw African Shea Butter. Actually, I just picked this up from a Harlem street vendor and I use it for my face!!  So, this doesn’t count as a hair product as I don’t like shea butter on my hair. It just sits there and, I think, it even makes my hair look “ashy!” *lol* Again, use JBCO to seal.

32. Eco Styler Olive Oil gel (staple). Ladies, I got this massive tub on sale for, like, $3 at Sally’s! At the time, I was like, “What am I going to do with all of this gel?!?!” But, gotta tell you, I really like this stuff. It works great for mixing with moisturizing products to provide hold on sets or my edges. Because it’s heavy and not wet, it doesn’t make my edges revert as long as I tie them down with a satin scarf while it dries. Eco is definitely a repurchase when it runs out in another year or two;-).

33. DevaCare Set It Free at approx. $17. I think I got this half-price on a buy one get one 50% off sale at Ulta. I remember balking at the full price and think I waited to try it until the sale. This was another Curly Nikki inspired purchase. She uses it on her ends before rolling for TnCs. It has a thick, milky consistency, but is thin enough to spray. I really like this as it is very moisturizing. I’ll definitely repurchase, but with a coupon or when on sale!!

34. Dabur Vatika Hair Fall Control Styling Cream x2, $5.99. See my review in prior posts. Long story short, me likey. That’s why I have 2=).

35. Oyin Shine & Define, $11 for 4 oz. This is another product that I mix with something moisturizing or apply after something moisturizing. Again, it provides a light, flexible hold. I find that #36 provides more shine. However, this is natural whereas 36 is not. I hadn’t used this in a while, but broke it out for a set a few weeks back.

36. Murray’s Loc-Lock gel, approx. $3.99. I use this for two strand twists when I plan to wear them for several days/weeks. It is not thick or waxy and does not get hard or flake. It provides a light, flexible hold. Stores that sell it are not easily accessible to me, so I won’t go out of my way to repurchase. However, if I see it or happen to be where I can purchase it, I probably will once this one runs out. It’s not an item I would “back stock” though.

37. Wonder Curl Get Set Jelly sampler/tester. I’ve only used a little of this once on the WnG I posted a couple of weeks ago. Don’t think I can review it yet as haven’t used it enough.

38. Wonder Curl Butter Than Love tester, Free;)! $12 for 4 oz/$20 for 8 oz. Okay ladies, this stuff has given me BEAUTIFUL and consistent TnCs. I use Kimmaytube leave-in, then apply this, twist, roll, dry and then release with a little JBCO.  LOVE the consistent results I’ve gotten with this product. Pretty much I’ve used it on almost every wash day since the beginning of this challenge.  So, almost all of my hair pics on this blog are styled using BTL.

If you read all of this, I am über impressed!!  Hope something in it was useful!!

Later this week, PJ Stash, Part Deux (Yes, there’s more.  STOP JUDGING ME!!!)!!!


11 responses »

  1. I’m in LOVE w/ the Shea Moisture Moisture Retention Shampoo, it smells soooo good to me and the slip is crazy! It leaves my hair clean and super moisturized. I also use the Deep Treatment Masque, but only as a styler (as a DT it doesn’t do anything for me, no slip) but use it to style and your hair will be super moisturized for days. I use Shea Moisture’s Restorative Conditioner as a leave-in right after washing my hair (again, it’s not good as an in-shower detangler, no slip) but as a leave-in my hair LOVES it!

    I thought I was the only one who used that Murray’s Lock, lol, I used to use it on my edges to slick em down. It has a strong soft hold.

    I’m a fellow PJ, and I’m dying to get my hands on some Qhemet products, I hear nothing but good things about them (especially the Amla and Olive Heavy Cream). I’m also looking into purchasing some shampoo bars from Chagrin Valley Soap and Craft (I live in Cleveland, OH and they sell the products locally at a cheaper price at my local Whole Foods!

    Ok…I’m rambling LOL


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    • LOL!! I wanted to do a feature … “What’s Under YOUR Sink?” And in your shower, closets, kitchen cabinets, fridge …. LOL!!! Because, I know that I”m not the only one with a problem;)! LOL!! I’ve slowed down a lot since last year. I am not acquiring anywhere near the amount of new stuff I was picking up on a weekly basis when I discovered CurlyNikki. But, I still have a habit. Shoot, probably the only reason I’m not out buying is because I’m now too busy blogging! I don’t have much time for shopping between this, work, taking care of the house and trying (most of the time) to stay in shape. So, I really probably only slowed down because I haven’t had the time to peruse the aisles of every PJ enflaming locale in the area!!


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  5. hello shelly i read your article about the worst thing youve done to your hair. I’m wondering how did you take care of your hair after the chemicals. I went through the same thing and im trying to grow my hair out and its BEEN YEARS! i used to have long hair Its been an afro since the perm!! can you help me out 😦


    • Hi Anon. That was a very long time ago. I was a kid, like 16 maybe, and I just cut off the damage and started again. Same thing when my hair was damaged and breaking from an overlapped relaxer, I chopped it and started again. The thing is, I never had any scalp damage, no chemical burns or anything. So, it was just the hair that was damaged. Did you have chemical burns or damage to your scalp or was it just the hair? Are you deep conditioning regularly? Here are two posts that contain a lot of information that might help you get started on building a regimen:




      • Well had used to get relalxer then i got the perm. but yes when i got relaxer i would get burned every here and then.i think i might have been burned once maybe after the relaxer, i cant quite remember because i wasnt suppose to comb it too much so the curls would last. Lol now that i think of it i never shaved it off after the perm. BUt i JUST shaved it off this september. Im at a short fro again and i have been trying things here and there. I used to use mizani (stopped using that it makes my forehead too greasy, but then again i might be putting too much product, the problem is i have THICK hair) im using this hawaiian silky, this what i put in when it gets dry between the days i have to wash it (every week). THANKS ALOT and im curious,are there any pictures of you on the web?


        • I don’t understand what you mean are there pictures of me on the web? This is my blog, so there are lots of pictures here, as well as with my FB page, IG and Twitter. I also guest blog, so there are pics on CurlyNikki with my posts as well.


          • haha i just realizde that sounded creepy but i was just curious, i really need help about this hair situation. i try to ask stylist but they never dealt with people that has had the same hair history. but one thing they keep on telling me is moisture and i have been but i dont think i am using the right products. I just want something thats not too greasy because i have been breaking out like craaazy but thanks


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